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Thursday 20 February 2014

Be Inspired.

I shared something with my Mentor yesterday and he made me value my relationship with him more. This is what he told me and I just wanted to share it with you. So,.........

There is a popular inspirational story of a cow that was thrown in a deep pit. People threw dirt and all sorts of rubbish on the cow. Instead of lamenting and feeling distraught, or useless, the cow made the determination to see each dirt and rubbish as an opportunity to be supported and raised upwards little by little. So it always shook off the dirt and this became a stepping up platform. This continued for a while and gradually, little by little, after a long while, the cow was raised up to a level where it was able to get out of the pit by itself.

The morale of this story is that people will throw a lot of rubbish at us, obviously designed to make us feel worthless and miserable, even up to the point of giving up on life. However, we can decide to use these dirt and rubbish as opportunities rather than threats. Keep in mind that the way we feel is a decision that we have in our hands. Every day that we are alive to see gives us two opportunities. We can either decide from the moment we get up from the bed that day whether we are going to be happy or take the only other alternative which is to feel miserable. The choice is ours. This reminds me of what a colleague told me recently. She said that she always carries her happiness with her and doesn’t leave it in the hands of others. That’s a very useful thought. So if we allow what people say, or their attitudes to discourage us, we certainly give off ourselves to them and those people take over and become the remote control of our lives. Each time we see them or hear their ridicule, they figuratively press a remote control button that sets us ablaze internally. Is that what you really want? I am sure not. 

I am sure this is for someone reading this. I think its for you!
                                                                                                         

2 comments:

  1. I really cherish ur friendship thanks for this one.

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  2. Thank you so much! I don't know who you are though.

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